Ladies, we all know that the number 1 thing we all worry about when starting a new relationship is if your man is cheating. I’m sure we’ve all been manipulated and deceived by boyfriends in the past and are hesitant before entering another relationship. No one wants to have to go through a heartbreak again after leaving one.
As ladies, we all question why our boyfriends cheat. Am I right? Guys will tell you a million reasons to why they cheat. There is no direct answer. A man will give you the run around from here to around the corner. However, we can avoid even enduring the pain of a heartbreak if we just know the signs of a cheater.
Ladies, I’m here to give you hints on how to tell if your man is cheating:
- The number one hint that your man might be cheating on you is if he never leaves his phone around you, alone. Ladies, does your man have a passcode on his phone or does he quickly run into the room when he realizes that he left his phone with you in the same room? Wouldn’t this lead to suspicion? Well, 9 times out of 10, he is hiding something. A man of innocence would not think twice about leaving his phone with his girlfriend because he has nothing to hide.
- The second hint is if he tells you he is going out with his boys and you ask what are their plans for the evening, and he says that they are just going to “kick it.” This should leave suspicion instantly. I know I would ask my man, “Why everytime I ask you what you and your friends are doing, you just say you are going to kick it?” What does kicking it mean exactly? To me, it means that they are up to no good.
- Third, if his friends have a bad reputation of being cheaters. Remember this ladies, you are the company you keep. So if your man is hanging around guys who have a reputation of cheating on their girlfriends, I wouldn’t second guess what my man is doing when he is hanging around them. A man’s friends is not going to tell him not to cheat on you. They are going to encourage him to do dirt along with them. Trust me, I’ve been through this before. Their friends will laugh in your face if you ask if your man is being unfaithful.
- Fourth, if your boyfriend doesn’t want to take you around in public, introduce you to his friends and family, he is hiding something. Why else wouldn’t he want to introduce you to the most important people in his life? Many times it’s because he has another girl on the side, his main chick.
- Lastly, if he doesn’t want to change his relationship status on facebook. I’m sure many of you probably think this is minor and it shouldn’t make a difference, but trust me, this is major. If he is not willing to make it publicly known that you are his girlfriend, he doesn’t take the relationship seriously. I mean how hard is it to change a status on facebook. If your man hit you with lines such as, “I don’t know how to do it,” or “Baby, you know I don’t like everyone in my business,” he is lying! Chances are, he just doesn’t want anyone knowing he is with you because either he doesn’t want it to ruin his ”game,” or he has other women on the side. Be aware!
If your boyfriend is displaying any one of these hints, chances are he is cheating or hiding something. I know it is a painful thing to be cheated on, but ladies if you ignore these signs, you are only perpetuating the pain for yourself. It’s better to end it now, then to suffer any longer.
By: Simone Grant