Now a days, I see more and more women approaching men. By approach I mean show interest in dating, because a lot of this “approaching” is being done via the internet. More and more I am noticing people using facebook as a platform to date. My friend just told me yesterday that she messaged a guy on facebook and asked him if he was single.
Since the term thirsty started being used, a lot of men are claiming that women are just as thirsty as them. The term thirsty in that sense means very eager to talk to the opposite sex, very aggressive, and trying to date any and everyone. It seems natural now and normal for people to flirt via facebook statuses, instagram comments, etc. I had a male friend tell me once that he doesn’t like women that approach him first, but is he a minority in the matter?
I see nothing wrong with a woman going for what she wants. My only fear is that the man won’t want to miss the opportunity to talk to her and potentially lie about being in a relationship. If the guy is single and he doesn’t mind the woman being the aggressor then that is perfect. There are actually some shy men out there that are relieved when a woman says something to them. However, ladies if you are going to say something to a man, please make sure that he is single. It is not cute nor ok to go after another woman’s man. But hey who knows, maybe if we take the lead we can find a good thing.
Ladies, if you have any stories about being the aggressor in a dating situation tweet us @rnbmagazine and let us know.
