When we find out our significant other is cheating on us, all kinds of thoughts more than likely run through our minds. The hurt, disappointment, and betrayal probably take precedence over all other feelings, but at some point and time we have to wonder who is she? What does she look like? I personally feel that the anger should be directed at the man, after all he is YOUR man, she owes you NOTHING.
A lot of women want to go after the other woman, but what does that solve? In a lot of cases, the other woman didn’t even know about you, so what is your beef with her? Yes men lie. Some men deny being in relationships when they are out having affairs. This man is supposed to be faithful and committed to YOU, again this woman owes you nothing.
In some cases the woman does know that the man that she is seeing is in a relationship, or married and she still deals with him. She is wrong, but again what does she owe you? I’ve heard women say, if women stop cheating with men they will have no choice but to be faithful. That would be great, but come on be for real, is that always realistic? There are hundreds of women out there that will flat out refuse to see a man in a relationship, but there are those, single, backed-up, horny women that won’t ignore her attraction to your man if he persues her. Again who is in the wrong? I say both, but you will gain nothing from confronting the other woman.
She may give you all the details of the affair and open your eyes to the dishonest, cheating dog that your man is and it will hurt you, but after that hurt what? Are you going to leave him? No one can make a man cheat. I won’t get into a rant of if he cheated once he will do it again. Some men can most definitely change, but remember this: you are in a relationship with him not her. It is his job to be faithful, loyal, and consider your feelings. If he chooses not to do these things, don’t fight or argue with the person he cheated with, deal with him!
